....? None of those people are saying it's bad. All I see is people suggesting something better could be done. Using pretty mild and sympathetic language to boot!
In all those quotes you posted I see people suggesting that there could be better options, but I can't see anybody saying the first option was a bad thing. In fact, they ALL say the first option is a quite nice thing. There's just another option they prefer more. At the very least, I can confirm that my quotes are of this opinion.
If you seriously can't see that...
You said they made a "logical error" when they chose to help this child out. Not very mild or sympathetic language, in my books. In fact, it even sounds a little like you think you are better than these poor, misguided fools. I hope you will not take it personally if I vigorously disagree.......
Also, while I see a lot of people in this thread suggesting better options, I see very few people going out and doing them. Big differences are made by adding up little changes. Every person out there who does something to help a child, no matter where in the world, is making a positive change. Now, if you want more children helped, go think about what
you can do to pitch in. Or just continue to snark at people on the internet, 'cause that will really make the world a better place. :rolleyes: