As long as you didn't kill any named BoS members, you can go to sleep for a day, and all the members should be friendly again. If you want to be careful, wait 2 days just to be safe.
Yes, wait a day or two then go back, might be a good idea to leave a token of condolence I suggest dropping a few Salisbury Steaks in the quarters
Maxson loves his toy car, he took it back when I just wanna have a look at it.
You could take him toy car gifts and put them in his quarters
If you are unlucky to kill "innocents" - not red target, you may walk free if youre not spotted/seen by others. Problems with giving companions granates/molotovs that they may be using them into a crowd of folks "red" and innocents. I always save game before a fight or entering new area. Shooting wrong ones, may getting into trouble. Even game do quicksaves, it's safer save by myself. I also do backup of savegame dir now and then to other harddrive, so if main drive doesn't work anymore, install the game again on a new disk, but savegame still intact.
Cheers,
-Klevs