Ok so after reading the majority or threads heres what ive noticed. Basically the people that had problems before the patch now have a better gaming experience and the people that had minor problems now actually have problems and a worse gaming experience. Personally my gaming experience was bad before the patch and now although not perfect it had greatly improved. There's still some major issues that need to be resolved and outside of gameplay mechanics i think the only logical way to fix connection issues with such a data heavy game is to provide dedicated servers as a single p2p host cannot carry 11 players on one connection.
Dont know whether you guys would like to start a poll for cross platform ded servers as i believe this will remedy most problems.