Do you really
need All Natural? Are you sure?
It's just that using Wrye Bash is, as you have discovered, not as straightforward as is using many other mods and utilities. Oblivion Mod Manager, for example. If you're not very computer savvy, as you say, you might want to just take it slow, get used to one thing at a time, and over a few days / weeks / months, or however long, eventually master everything you want or need to.
Just my 2c. Not trying to dissuade you from giving WB a chance (I believe people should do as they wish, for the most part), but it is fairly "advanced", and not that intuitive, as far as mod tools and such go.
edit: And if you do want to proceed with BAIN (that's Wrye Bash's inbuilt installation method) then you could do worse than to read about it http://tesivpositive.animolious.com/ (under Installing Mods -> BAIN installation, for that in particular).