so I've gotten to the point where it's said that Almalexia(Ayem), Vivec(Vehk), and Sotha Sil(Seht) are the three false gods. if those are the false gods, who are the real ones?

Lorkhan, whose power they feed off of.

And the Daedric Princes whom were the original patrons of the Chimer: Boethiah, Mephala, and Azura.

Well, if you look at the book "Overview of Gods and Worship" one might speculate that there are no gods, just spirits with greater or lesser powers. Of course you could also follow the Dark Brotherhood and believe that the only entity is Sithis...

http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Lore:Nine_Divines#Nine_Divines

Depends on the culture and view. Many races believe that Anu (Stasis) and Padomay (Sithis) were the original creators. Then, for example, the land of Nirn was born when Lorkhan's heart was shot into the ocean. There are many gods if you wish to see it that way.

THOR

The Tribunal are real gods. From a certain point of view. It's not as clear-cut as the Dissident Priests and Ashlanders would have you believe. They all have their own opinions and views but none are the entire truth.