practically every single thing mentioned, especially pertaining to gods and the 'order' of things, is ambiguous to the highest degree, meaning that practically everything that has ever happened is said to have happened in a number of strikingly different ways.
Its said to have happened in different ways, but that doesn't mean that there is not a 'right' answer. The Monomyth is one of the most ambiguous things in lore, but when you read through all the myths you will see that they are describing the same thing in slightly different ways. Instead of thinking of it as 9 different stories think of it as 9 viewpoins on the same story.
it's literally created some sort of elite class of fan - the loremaster, who worship the utterances of the man-god, MK. , people who seem to have extracted some sort of interesting meanings from all this stuff.
This view is damaging to your (everyone's) attempts to learn the lore. Its
not only for "lore masters" and its
not hard to understand. The Odyssey is not just for scholars of classical greek poetry and you don't have to be a Marukhathi to understand Shor son of Shor. All it takes is a willingness to learn and critical reading skills. Are there people who know lore better than most? Sure. But they aren't some sort of god-sent sages, they are just people who put a lot of time into doing this stuff.
Studying Dunmer theology is no harder than investigating Gnosticism or biology. In fact, it is much, much easier. Typing "Auriel" into TIL's search engine will reveal everything you need to know about Auriel, while trying to learn everything about Sophia probably requires reading many
real life books o.o Is it as simple as 'this happened and then that happened'? No, its not. But neither is it impossible or brain surgery.
When in doubt, quote Vivec. He
is an atlas of smoke