So basically you're comparing Skyrim to a bunch of tech demos and Crysis... Oh wait those are the same thing... So yeah, you think Skyrim should look as good as a bunch of tech demos, none of which are based around games as big and detailed as Skyrim will be.
For the last time, Skyrim looks absolutely gorgeous for a world as big as Oblivion's and even more detailed. Show me one other game that size and with that much detail that looks nearly as good.
Man, graphics [censored]s are annoying. Go play Crysis and shut up.
I know, it's annoying that people have different tastes and ideas than you right? To some people, graphics are part of the immersion in a game. It doesn't make them less of a person, or more shallow, it is just how our brains process things differently. Some people love great music, others love great art, others still love manipulating things with their hands. All of these people have different priorities in games. BTW, do you people scream at everyone on the streets about how they care about looks in the opposite six? In the grand scheme of things, we are a visual species, so looks ARE important to us.
Honestly, I have to agree with the OP. I think Skyrim looks great, and I'm 99.999% sure that I will love it. That being said, I was really expected to be blown away by the game, and instead I thought, huh, it looks Oblivion with some really nice mods. Just because I am a huge fan of the series doesn't mean I am going to become a knob slobbering fool over anything that is shown to me. Obviously I expect games like BF3 and Crysis2 to look better, but I really didn't think games like Two Worlds 2 would be beating out Skyrim in certain areas. Laugh all you want, but TW2 does has better textures, lighting, and environmental detail than the little we have seen of Skyrim thus far. Granted there are MANY other areas where Skyrim destroys TW2, but I was execting an ES game that comes out close to a year later to dominate a small time game like TW2 in EVERY area, not be a draw. I'm not even going to mention the Witcher2, which pretty much beats Skyrim hands down in every area. I guess this is probably based on Bethesda's decision not to go with a brand new engine, but what can you do? Maybe for their next game we will see something really different.
BTW, to reiterate what the OP said for all the haters: NONE of us have played the game yet. Essentially all we can discuss is graphics and design decisions. People who complain about the graphics aren't trying to personally hurt your feelings or those of the developers, but rather give some constructive criticism about something we see as a hindrance to immersion. Criticism happens to big people all the time in the real world. Learn to live with it, and try to add something to the conversation other than "quit whining!" and "gameplay > graphics"(they are not one in the same)...