I've been trying to scour through the nexsus, but even with their filters its becoming a real pain:(. Does anyone know where I can get an unmodded save game with both the MQ and DG completed and the PC is male?

If there is one for female you could just change your characters race and gender.

Isn't that a big no no? I've heard it can cause major problems with the game.

I believe it's only if you change the race

http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Console