Trying to upload it to Nexus without explicit permission is opening a ginormous can of worms, so it's best just not to go there. Probably best not to go there at all at any other site either.
True. But again the question remains of how to contact the mods author? :shrug:
Megaupload wasn't a problem when she uploaded the mod there, it's only been more recently that they've caved into malware distributors and started passing viruses along for the ride. I've personally complained about it and only ever gotten back the usual canned response from their mail system thanking me for contacting them blah blah blah. I suspect they just don't care.
Sorry to hear about that. It's really a shame they didn't care if that was their intentions.