I'm extremely competitive when it comes to games

The only thing I hate in mp games is when gear > skill. Which is the reason I don't like the competitive side of WoW. If some kid beats me because he spent hundreds of hours getting perfect gear and I didn't... I get really frustrated.
This is also the reason I don't like shooters with character leveling
There's not really a whole lot of skill involved in WoW, is there? I mean, I might be wrong, but usually in games like WoW there is generally a PvE build and a PvP build. The decided factor usually IS gear, and you do need to take the time to acquire it. I never got into the PVP side of FFXI, but I always had people complain that my Monk was to strong, all the while being geared up in pure Auction House gear, and not even top of the line gear. Of course you're not going to do as well as me, I spent hundreds of hours farming for the top of the line gear because I was devoted to being the best Monk on the server. Course, in FFXI, it really is Gear > skill(though some may argue Gear and skill are equal), but I've never seen anyone argue Skill > Gear for it. I realize that WoW has various skill sets, but considering the length of time it's been out, I'd wager it's a safe bet that everyone knows what are good builds and what are bad ones, so again Gear > skill on the simple theory that everyone should be at roughly the same Skill level.