Yes, pay for it. Subscriptions to sites which produce the content regularly, instead of watching stuff that was saved at 10 FPS off of those sites and distributed illegally? Just like video games like Fallout 3, advlt content is merchandise and as such, is purchased.
Do both of you live in 2001?
High quality pormography is widely available for on demand streaming on a huge number of sites covering virtually every fetish imaginable. Feel the urge to watch lisbian clown porm? No problem! (although I'm not going to provide a link!)
If you feel some urgent moral need to pay for it, feel free, however stating that stuff available for free is only low-res terrible dross is straight-up untrue.
Fallout 2 did not have overwhelming, explicit sixual garbage. I'm glad Fallout 3 did not either. It would have been one heck of an insult to the game, if it felt the need to do that.
Back on topic, you're completely wrong. F2's first town (Arroyo aside), Klamath, featured a "bath house" where the player could buy, uh, "company". Many other places offered similar services. Then there was the minor collection quest for ten issues of
Cat's Paw (a gentleman's magazine..).
Oh, are we forgetting the work available to the player in New Reno in http://fallout.wikia.com/wiki/Golden_Globes?
What's so scary about sixual content?
Oh no, naked people, well, that's us going to hell.