do you realize you cab cure your arachnaphobia by forcing yourself to play?
Actually... no.
I don't like spiders and arthropods in general.
I was on the verge of tears several times in Arx Fatalis, in the spiders nest.
I had to close the game and take a break in Penumbra (but that did happen even for other things).
When I fight them I find myself mumbling incoherent words and insults to the screen.
But you know what? in-game panic it's part of the fun for me.
Now, in real life it's a different story, and no video game can help with that.
Insecticide is the only option.