All right, here goes!
These are all the esp and esm files being loaded in this order:
A Bloody Mess - Bloody Fights
ACCCGR SI
Acrobatics Mastery
ActorsInMadness
actors_in_charge
Adrenaline Fuelled Archery
AFC v2 Core.esm
AFC v2 Locational Damage
Armor_skirts_nonlvl
A_Bloody_Mess.esm
BAKAdventurerTorch
Bandit Hideouts
Basic Primary Needs
Better Cities - COBL
Better Cities - Knights of the Nine
Better Cities - Open Better Cities
Better Cities - VWD of the IC
Better Cities
Better Cities Full
Better Cities Resources
BetterBlocking
BetterMusicSystem
bgMagicEV
bgMagicEV_Conjuration_for_Supreme_Magicka
BHC_Expanded
Birthsigns Revamped
blackbow
Book Jackets Oblivion - BP
bookplacing.esm
Brighter_Torches
BuyLockpicks
cancelattack
CapesandCloaks
CB-Cobl_Glue
ChitinArmor
City_Voices
ClocksOfCyrodiil_BC_OBC_OC_OCLR_Vanilla
CLS-ClassyClothes.esm
CLS-ClassyClothesFactions
CLS-Craftybits.esm
CLS-Craftybits
Cobl Glue
Cobl Main.esm
Cobl Races
Cobl Si
Cobl Tweaks
Companion Postal Service
Craftybits deadly weapons
Crossbow
Crossbows of Cyrodiil
Crowded Roads
CT-Dunmer Scalemail
Cutthroat Merchants
Dangerous Waters
Disenchant
DLCShiveringIsles
Dude Wheres My Horse
Duke Patricks - Actors Can Miss Now
Duke Patricks - Fresh Kills Now Alert The NPCs
Duke Patricks - Near Miss Magic And Arrows Alert The Target
Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 DT
Enchanted Hands
Enchantment Enhanced
EnchantmentMastery
Enemy Actors Use Powers 0.1.1
Enhanced Daedric Invasion.esm
Enhanced Daedric Invasion
EnhancedMountedCombat
FastTravelAllowed
Francesco's 14 days respawn time - 1-24 day lenght rescale
Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm
Francesco's Optional Files
Francesco'sOpntional New Creatures Add-on.esm
Francesco's Slower skills x2
goblin_war_party
Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles
Harvest [Flora]
HotCatOnTheRoof
HTHAdvanced - Sinkpoint
IlluminationWithin
IlluminationWithout
IMPChameleonSEV
ImpeReal Empire - Unique Forts
IshMultipleApparelEnchantments
JumpModifier
KDDwemerSpecBeast
KDDwemerSpectacles
Knights
kuerteeCrimeHasWitnesses
kuerteeeEncumberingLootArmourAndWeapons
kuerteeGoldIsAnInventoryItem
kuerteeeHorseCommands
kuerteeIgnoringTheMainQuestHasConsequenses
kuerteeNoLootingDuringCombat
LadyDeadlock_LoveYourHorse
Large_FPSFIX_Natural_Vegetation
LCE-addon
lorecreatures
Lynges Unlimited Deaath Reload Time
Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions
Map Marker Overhaul
Mart's Monster Mod - Gems & Gem Dust
Mart's Monster Mod - Less Reavers
Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures
Mart's Monster Mod - No Blood
Mart's Monster Mod - No Giants
Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Roads
Mart's Monster Mod for Fran
Mart's Monster Mod for OOO - NoReaversInGates
Mart's Monster Mod for OOO.esm
Mart's Monster Mod for OOO
Mart's Monster Mod.esm
Mart's Monster Mod
MathFunctions.esm
MC_Staff_Pack
mmm - no ghostly apparition
MMM modification
MOM-OpenCities
More Realistic Encumbrance with Fatigue
mrSiikasDurzog
Natural_Habitat_by_Max_Tael
Natural_Water_by_Max_Tael
Natural_Weater_HDR_with_darker_Nights_by_Max_Tael
Noble_and_Peasant_Hats
NoDurationSpells
Oblivion Citadel Door Fix
Oblivion.esm
OblivionDurzogs
OBSE-Storms & Sound SI
OOO-Better_Priced_Clutter
OOO-Combat_Skills_Perks_Marksmanship
OOO-Container_Trap_Instant_Effects
OOO-DaedraLord_Quests
OOO-Dangerous_Traps
OOO-DLT_Immersion
OOO-Level_Slow
OOO-Magic_Effects+Enchantments
OOO-Magic_Effects+Spells
OOO-Magic_Game_Settings
OOO-Magic_Script_Effect_Fix
OOO-No_Guild_Ownership
OOO-Potions
OOO-Respawn_Two_Weeks
OOO-ThiefGuild_Difficult
OOO-Water_Weeds
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul
P1DkeyChain
P1DsafeContainers
Personality Idles - Modified version
PersuasionOverhaul
PersuasionOverhaul_MMM
PersuasionOverhaul_OOO
polearms_1.0.7_EV
PowerAttack Voicemod - The Shivering Isles
PTRoamingNPCs
Rawn's deadly Oblivion
Rawn's modification for MMM
Rawn's modification for OOO
Rawn's orcish gauntlets show rings
Rawn's polearm modification
Rawn's skills
Rawn's test for Saviors hide
Real Black Bow Bandits
Real Lava 1.3
Real Time Lockpicking Minigames
RealisticForceMedium
RealisticHealth
ReneerKeyLockMod
RenGuardOverhaul
RshAlchemy
ScriptIcon_Replacer
SDR_Core
SDR_NPC Behavior
Side's EAX Control
SM_COBL
SM_EnchantStaff
SM_MMM
SM_OOO
SN_Scrolls
SM_ShiveringIsles
SM_SigilStone
Sounds of Cyrodiil
SS_GenderIndependentClothing v1.0
SSEE
Streamline 2.1
SupremeMagicka
Symphony of Violence
Toaster Says Share Faction Recruitment
Toaster Says Share v3.esm
Toaster's Brutal Stealth
Toaster's Legendary Master
TSS Custom Companion Template
Unofficial Oblivion Patch
UOPS Additional Changes
UVIII
VaultsofCyrodiilBC
Visually Enchanted Drains 1
Visually Enchanted Fire 1
Visually Enchanted Frost 1
Visually Enchanted Shock 1
Visually Enchanted SoulTrap 1
WCGL - Wilderness Creatures 1.1
WizardsHatsV1
_Real_Lights
And that's all of them....Crikey that took a while to write down...
Now, I'm no good at technical stuff so please do tell me if you notice and discrepancies in my load order or if files would clash etc.