Maybe the "nay-sayers" think that too. That things are getting out of hand (removing and changing not for the better, in their case). Little streams build up a river - and the more streams, the bigger the river --- so to speak.
Except that there isn't much of a build up, it's mostly confirmation of what people were already expecting and complaining about before. Combined cuirass/greaves, no spears/crossbows/levitation/mark&recall... Nothing new. Other than that it seems to be mostly baseless assumptions of changes or additions that people automatically assume are going to be bad. Marriages? Oh no Fable has marriages so it must be just like Fable so it's going to be bad!
There's nothing wrong with not simply buying into all the hype and questioning the info Bethesda reveals, but people are overexaggerating greatly.