Need a stick? You're beating the horse with me now. There is no "right" in assumption. There's a "safe", but not a "right."
"Right" in terms of "the right thing to do" not in terms of "correct". Just clarifying what I meant there. It's what I've always meant, though I now notice there's this ambiguity in the word that could be really confusing.
Yes it does matter because you've been stating that it does and now you don't? Yes it is etiquette and courtesy, and I think all of us, including myself, follow this ethics, but it's still a shame that good mods don't get updated/add on because of this. That's what several of us are against.
Define 'against,' please. Do I think it's a shame? Sure. Do I think a better way is possible? Yeah, sure, all modders should always leave instructions indicating their personal wishes on the matter. Do I think we can 'do anything' about this to make that happen? Well, there's awareness, there's things like what Darkrder is doing by giving TESA a section for this, etc. Those are good. But ultimately, once it has already happened, there's nothing to be done aside from hope that the original modder gets back to you and allows you to use it.
I brought up the law and copyright as a comparison, not as an assertion that we ought to be going to court or any such things. As such, the actual legal minutiae are not, as stated, important. What is important is the
concept of the copyright, which should be honored even if not legally required, for reasons of etiquette and courtesy. And as such, whether or not it's enforceable is not important, either: I was stating how everyone
should behave, which is a moral argument, not a legal one, and does not depend on anything beyond everyone's own conscience for enforcing it. If someone violates it, we'll do what we can — the moderators will lock the thread, TES Nexus and PES and TESA will take down the mod, etc., but ultimately we're limited in how far we can go to force someone to obey. All of which is inconsequential to the argument that everyone
should.