Ok, so i have never been so frustrated modding a game before.. I have the Oblivion Mod Manager and have been installing mods, but i am totally frustrated trying to get all my character mods to work together..

i have been using the character mods on this site: http://devnull.sweetdanger.net/totocharacter.html

It says the Beautiful People mods has a compatibility mod for Better Redgaurds, but i go to the instructions and am totally WTFed out... i downloaded this Wyre Bash program, but im having trouble figuring it out.

If anyone can take the time to help me start from scratch to get all the best character mods working together with Better Redgaurds, i would greatly appreciate it. Maybe there is a better mod to use in conjunction with Better Redgaurds... help help help

I haven't yet tried either Better Redguards or Beautiful People. But try checking out this http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=35230. I found it very helpful to get started with the plentitude of options in Wrye Bash.

That is also a rather outdated guide. I mean no disrespect - it was, no doubt, cutting edge back then. But... well, that was a number of years ago. Bodies and faces (among other things) have advanced somewhat, I would say. In Oblivion, I mean!