No, not directly. I have no rant or rave, and I wont tell you to stop. But the longer discussions like this stick around the more uncomfortable I get.

The way you said it made it sound as if it were merely the fact that the image was what you wanted makes the personality less likely to be compatible.

My goodness, you must have internets superpowers, in that you can tell simply from text the tone of my voice, and my body language when I type.
Or wait, maybe you can't.
Because it's not what I meant, what I meant was compatibility isn't based on looks, it's a mental/social/communcative thing.
Looks are moot if compatibility isn't there.
Keanu Reeves the actor is not Keanu Reeves the individual.
Public image is not the same as the actual one Just because we are familiar with them from media doesnt mean we know them, that we will get along with them, that we will share ideas and connect in person. It has noting do with being nasty or pleasant, it has to do with individuals differing in mental and social makeup.

That is what you said. Who is to say that just because his public image is one thing, you will not be equally enthused by his private self?

The beautiful bear has just closed this thread because he can. Well, for post limit.