For me, I'm tired of reading complaints because fringe desires aren't given priority. From what I remember of Oblivion's spell crafting, the system was kind of flawed and likely wouldn't transition well into the new combat system. Instead of keeping a gimped system, Beth is likely trying to incorporate some its elements (control over spell radius/power/effect combinations) into a new system. The new magic system allows you to control how you cast your spells (surround, target, etc). Your spells still have the ability to effect the opponent (slow them down, burn damage etc), and duel wielding should give you the ability to combine effects, along with the return of enchanting. What it removes is the ability to create ridiculous spells that break game mechanics. There may be a small loss in absolute control, but it seems to fit the overall combat mechanics better. I think what Beth is trying to do is break the boundary between RPG planning and gameplay. By integrating the stat sheets within the gameplay itself, Beth actually enhances both. Their motto seems to remain "you get better at what you do". Many of the complaints against Oblivion had to do with a character creation system that rewarded seemingly illogical choices. By removing the stat sheet itself, they didn't necessarily remove stats. What they have done is shift the decision making from a stat page to the gameplay choices made by the player. To some, gameplay doesn't seem like a choice. To bethesda, that is what roleplaying is IN ESSENCE. Including perks is a way to satisfy those who still like to feel a certain "godlike" control through planning. So skyrim does seem like an extension of Oblivion, in fact it goes farther. The problem the Devs had with Oblivion wasn't that it went too far down the road, but rather that it didn't go far enough. By holding on to the statsheet approach in many regards, Bethesda partially crippled their role-playing goal. Spellcrafting didn't seem like it really worked within the gameplay design, and it showed. In Skyrim, your playstyle will hopefully define you. If you approach your gameplay with that in mind, you should have more control over your character than ever before. No longer are you limited by your preset spell-effect combinations. Instead, you can combine any magic/melee/archery/stealth element in real time.
Example: If you play a battlemage and see a troll in the distance. You know the troll has a lot of health and moves slowly. If Skyrim performs as promised, you now have lots of options to deal with the monster. You can throw fireballs from a distance. Since the troll is slow, burn damage is the best tactical ploy as it has enough time to have a large effect. On his last legs as he reaches you, you take out your axe to finish your (unarmoured) foe. A different approach would work best against a speedy wolf. The strategy isn't gone, it is just redirected.
What I don't appreciate is people equating an RPG to a statsheet. This obviously isn't how Beth views the series. From my perspective, role playing games can work in 3 rough manners
1. Your stats affect your gameplay (more morrowind)
2. Your gameplay (style) affects your stats (likely Skyrim)
3. a mix of both (oblivion)
Whether you prefer 1 or 2 is just a matter of preference, but you definitely can't say that 1 is truer role playing, as it requires you to step outside of your character to make magical adjustments to their abilities. I think the danger comes in when you take the middle road, which doesn't really offer the benefits of either approach. Choice 1 is much easier to implement, but choice 2 seems to have the greatest potential if done properly.
Conclusion: Beth is abandoning old gameplay systems, but not their ideals. Their view of what the elder scrolls is has not changed. They are just trying to perfect that same vision. Just because the transition from Morrowind to Oblivion may have been a regression for some, it doesn't follow that another step in the same direction is necessarily bad.
So, respond to the poll! How do you feel about these only slightly related questions?