I personally like the way Todd and Pete have decided to approach the game's release. I think the limited wait time is something everyone can like, unless someone actually likes these long drawn-out PR Campaigns that waste time and money and can potentially derail a hype-train by the sheer amount of content a developer forces down your throat. I think the biggest gripe right now is that they just haven't shown a lot of footage, and its making people angry... for some reason. I'm fine, Bethesda has worked really hard on this. They want to keep everything a secret, that's good for me, even though it makes the wait that much more lonesome (which the SPECIAL videos have alleviated that a lot).
My biggest gripe with the Fallout community right now, is that everyone who's judging the games is LITERALLY basing every assumption off of the, what, 20 minutes, of the game that have been shown? Whatever dude... Your going to buy it anyways.
On the topic of pre-ordering, I have pre-ordered Fallout 4. I have never made a better decision, because even in my small town my local GameStop will be packed with people, and I also have to go to school, unfortunately. Speaking of school, if anyone besides me is trapped in the American Education system November 10th, the good news is that Veterans Day is November 11th. Was this some excellent planning by Bethesda (and the Tomb Raider developers, apparently) or just a coincidence? Who knows, but I know what my Veterans Day is going to consist of.