It really seems (key word seems) to me people have ta do everything and have a hard time letting go of things like doing lame quests for Preston. Or whatever endless radiant npc they do them for. Me start game. Level how I want for a while and explore and find a home that's NOT Sanctuary. When I eventually feel like it go to Preston and tha gang...lead them to Sanc....do tha little quests there tha chair and whatever and then leave...forever. Preston will ask you ta go to Tenpines or whatever...just don't go. Your OCD wants you to clear out tha quests....we it never ends and will bore you to death and distract you from tha massive amounts of other stuff ta do. If and when you ever get to tha other stuff you are gonna be worn out from doing boring radiant trash and that is your OCD ruining tha game. Your lack of self control not tha games fault.
Make tha game your own. It is tha same way some of us was able to play FO3 and Vegas all tha way till 4 came out. That and mods that added content.
If you're finding tha game boring...how about instead of calling it boring ask all tha people who have fun how they are doing it. Maybe you will learn interesting things.