I'm going to end this by saying to each his own.
I happen to like roleplaying and nothing you can say will make me think or play otherwise. Someone was complaining about loot at higher levels and grinding. Roleplaying was mentioned as a suggestion to help stop things being boring at higher levels because for many it is a tried and true method. Ok, so it's not for everyone, but the highlighted sentence in your last post says that you're playing it the right way. What makes you think that when there is nothing to support it? There is no wrong way of playing it but that doesn't give anyone the right to condem roleplaying because they don't want to engage their imagination to try and inject a little more fun where it is needed.
As you said, you've played the way you want and now you find it boring. Personally, I think it's time you moved onto a different game, one that would provide you with a little more then what Skyrim can give you. That isn't me going to the usual "go play something else" response, this is my honest opinion based on the information I know.