So at the time that i accepted her quest i had 110% magic resistance, and it seems that the resistance actually negated her 'spell' that was cast on me.
I came to that conclusion since nothing happend after she casted it, i never had anything in my active effect's list involving it, and no mather how much ingame time passes my quest still say's that i need to wait for the 'spell/curse' to run out.

Now im wondering if i somehow overlooked something and i need to wait even longer, and/or if its normal that it's not in my active effects ect...

It would seem to be a bug. I had a bug on the 360 where her second spell set my alpha to 0..
anyway her spells supposed to appear in your active effects, at least the first one.