O.k. so I just got into building up a new building....
what I noticed is that on my first and second floors I could keep building floor without anything underneath for support....
Which has given me a great Idea...
I'm going to demolish all the buildings in my settlements and have a small tower in the center... then build floor after floor after floor extending outwards.
Since the physics engine allows me to build floor with no support it should be no issue at all