You could use TESAME or EE to simply remove all the references of Dunmer heads from the esp. (they would be in the Body Part section, iirc)
If you do decide to replace the Dunmer heads, check the http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/994490-the-npc-head-replacer-comparison-thread/page__hl__%22npc+head+replacer%22 for some ideas.