So basically they tried to turn their entire race into one God and trapped themselves in some sort of spirit realm?
Ouch.
In a manner of speaking, yes.
It's not exactly "some sort of spirit realm", however, as it is the point from which all creation sprang. It's actually more akin to going back in time to before there was time, to be in the state before they had consciousness and before their souls were formed. They wanted to basically be a singularity, sort of like going back to being that one point right before the Big Bang ever occurred, and stop time from ever happening for them, so that they could stay in that one moment of fused universe forever.
They wanted to be free of the cycle of reincarnation that exists in the TES world forever, in permanent non-existence.
In one way of looking at it, they achieved Nirvana.
In another way of looking at it, it was a giant mass-suicide of their souls.
That they destroyed themselves completely without a trace was basically the whole point. Again, if everything went exactly as planned or not is kind of impossible to tell.