So I started a High elf mage the other day and I really want to RP the crap out of the whole thalmor act. Every stormcloak I come across. Dead. Heimskir (Talos Priest in Whiterun). Dead. But the only thing that hasn't worked out on me being "apart" of the thalmor is that they all seem to hate me when I talk to them. I know I can't join them, but is there like a quest where I can gain their trust and respect or something? Like, if I did said quest, they would atleast be able to talk to me without being rude?? After all, I'm pretty much one of them...
Also, is there like a home- base for them or something? I know about the Thalmor Embassy (from the main quest) but it's locked until you do that part of the MQ, and after it's locked too. Any other buildings?