I think calling DRM "murder" is a bit much, even for a metaphor - it's not like it's killing the game outright! Except in a few extreme cases, it's still perfectly possible to play the games, even though it has become ridiculously more complicated. But remember that we're talking about Steam here, not other forms of DRM which have been less successful at 1) stopping piracy and 2) hamstringing our favorite games (I'm looking at YOU, Ubisoft! :flame:) In half a decade of use I have yet to encounter any problems with using Steam, never once had it refuse to let me play a game when I wanted, although I will concede that I am indeed one of the 15% with reliable high-speed internet (although I believe this figure, if true, is climbing rapidly.)
Yes, DRM takes away some of the control of the game licenses that we have purchased, but we were never in full control of the product in the first place. It's certainly a two-way relationship, that it's in developers' best interests to heed the complaints and desires of their potential customers, but they are the ones doing the hard work, so to me it seems fair enough that they should dictate the terms of the relationship. Some developers go too far, which is why I'm no longer a customer of Ubisoft games, and in those cases I fully agree that some forms of DRM are worse than doing nothing by inconveniencing their paying customers, but I don't see this in Steam.
You can think of it as softening the blow, but I prefer to think of it as meeting gamers half-way.
I do concede that Steam is not the worst offender when it comes to how they kill PC gaming, but that does not make me any happier about the end result.
If I cannot play a PC game when I want to, then I am forced to play a console game... a platform on which publishers are able to completely prevent anything they don't want to allow.
Additionally, developers do not add DRM, it is the publishers that do so (granted, there are exceptions where the developer and publisher are the same). Therefore, the "hard work" is not what is being protected, the hard workers have all been given everything they are going to get already.