When I first used Steam I hated it. I bought HL2 not knowing it required Steam. But I wanted to play that game. I brought it home and installed it only to find I needed to download steam. I was on dial up which was supposed to be about 50 MB connection. With the lousy phone lines here it generally ended up going down to 24 or so most of the time. I moderated this forum already then and had a very difficult time doing so at times. By the time a page would load so I could delete spam there would sometimes be two more pages of it to delete. It was a horror story.
Anyway, I think it took me about two days to completely get Steam downloaded at which time I only went back when I heard there was a patch for Steam or for the game. I played the whole game offline and enjoyed it very much but of course never wanted to use steam again.
The next time I got a game requiring steam was not until more recent times when my area finally had DSL available (I snagged that right up) and still it is a very slow DSL. It took me 26 hours to DL FO:NV for instance. I have completely changed my mind about Steam. It's pretty awesome in many ways. I can get to my games from any PC in the house. I don't need the disc. Getting a patch is much easier than in the past when servers would be screaming from so many trying to get them all at once. Steam is efficient.
for me I didn't get HL2 just because I didn't like what what I've heard about Steam & until I was Duped into getting my first Steam/Steamworks game (Front Mission Evolved)I quietly avoided Steam it's DRM wasn't listed until AFTER the game was available & for sale & I got it in the mail (At least Bethesda warns us beforehand).
As for not being able to play offline or being forced to install patches. It will only force you to install patches available when you first load it. Any future patches are not forced as long as you play offline. I have many neighbors who live without internet connections (or running water or electricity except generators for that matter) yet they will bring their PC out to my house or to the lodge down the highway to download and/or patch existing games. They do so, go offline and go back into the woods and never go back online again until months later when they once again come out with PC in hand. Yes, it's a hassle but it's one folks who live around here are willing to have so they can continue to live the lifestyle they do off the grid. It's just a way of life here.
the forced patching alone makes me want to wait for when all the patching is done & consider getting the GOTY & hope the patches are somehow on the disc, which is a shame because in the past I enjoyed buying the collector's then buying the GOTY to round out my Beth games. & on toting my rig someplace with broadband, I would not say that's a good option for me, My brother has the net speed. I love him, but his touch alone has doomed more than a few of my 'Puters & his Step-kids are not ones I would trust either.
I could be very wrong but I think most resistance to Steam DRM and use of it is that it screws you if you want to "share" your game with friends or brothers or sisters or if you want it for free. It prevents you from selling it to another or from buying a used one on Ebay. All of those things are and have always been against the EULA. Steam enforces it a bit better. Not that it prevents pirating completely but it slows it down a bit. Every little bit helps.
for me it's not about the Sharing or selling thogh the one game I would love to sell is my one Steamed game (Steam makes me regret buying that one)just because of the experience with the Steamworks DRM.
on the sharing I bought my brother his own copy of FO3 GoTY in all I bought three legit copies of FO3 (1 collector's 2 GOTY)so I could support Bethesda
And please do regardless of if it must be authenticated on steam or not, allow me to buy a retail copy. I assure you after downloading FO:NV and it taking so long I will in the future await my physical copy so that I can install it and merely have the much quicker authentication process with steam.
Actually I see Steamworks as a means to try to wean people off retail PC purchasing. Just look arround these forums at how many say downloading is the way they buy their games any more
As long as I have been on the internet and playing games I have never seen any form of DRM that was not complained about bitterly. Always without fail, people make threats not to buy it, claim it's intrusive, claim it causes a myriad of problems and hate it. The only way that will not happen is if games came with no protection what so ever. And to do that would be for whatever company released it to many legal problems for not taking steps to protect their IP and to risk much more than losing a few angry customers.
I promise you that no matter what protection it comes with, someone will complain. In the end, companies must try to choose the lesser of all evils.
To me that highlights the need for multiple DRM options & not just one for everyone. I understand the need to protect the property just more than one option is needed though.