Here is my load order:
Skyrim.esmUpdate.esmDawnguard.esmDragonborn.esmApachiiHair.esmApachiiHairFemales.esmApachiiHairMales.esmLighting.esmMagicDuel.esmmore_Travelers.esmSkyMoMod.esmSPIKE.esmWARZONES - Civil Unrest.esmWinterholdDestruction.esmBrawl Bugs CE.espFemaleVampireEyeFix.espYsolda.espChesko_Frostfall.espBetter Dynamic Snow.espMorning Fogs.espBooksBooksBooks.espCalienteVanillaArmorTweaks.espskyBirds - Airborne Perching Birds.espSkyrim Flora Overhaul.espAdventurersAndTravelers.espmore_Travelers.espSIM- NPC Additions.espSIM - NPCAdditionsWEREWOLVES.espSIM - NPCAdditionsHOSTILE.espSIM - NPCSUBMITTED.espSIM - Treasure Anywhere.espWetandCold.espSkyUI.espBigger Badder Lich King Version 2.0.espNicos Raven Swords.espRobedSteelPlateArmor.esptheRoadstrokersRogueSorceress.espERSO 02 - Enhanced Fauna and Monsters for Skyrim.espDeadlyDragons.espERSO 04 - Mighty Odahviing.espERSO 04.2 - Mighty Durnehviir.espERSO 05 - Dovah Holy Book.espERSO 06 - Wait More Time Dragon Encounter x3.0.espERSO 07 - Mighty Dragon Priests.espERSO 08 - RUS-00 Main plus Dawnguard Dragonborn.espERSO 08.1 - ERSO MIRAAK.espERSO 08.2 - ERSO HARKON.espERSO 09 - RUS-Npcs overhaul.espERSO 09.2 - Radiance.espERSO 10 - RUS-(SIM)-Travellers and Adventurers.espERSO 10.02 - Adventurers and Travelers.espERSO 11 - RUS-(SIM)-Assassins and Thieves.espERSO 13 - MD - A Better Level Progression.espERSO 13.03 - Higher Skill Cap 125 with perks.espERSO 13.03 - Higher Skill Cap 125.espERSO 14 - Vendors richer and Inns more expensive.espERSO 14.02 - Harder barter 6-4.espERSO 14.03 - Vendor Soul Gems Only Empty And Very Rare.espERSO 14.04 - Vendor Animal Parts Less Common.espERSO 14.05 - Vendor Less Minerals no special.espERSO 14.06 - Vendor Minor Enchanted Weapons Armors Very Rare.espERSO 14.07 - Vendor Less Weapons Armors.espERSO 14.08 - Respawn Vendor Stuff 15 days.espERSO 16 - Realistic Crime Alert Distances - MEDIUM.espERSO 17 - Training cost 2.5x.espERSO 18 - LAWE hardcoe.espERSO 20 - Standing Stones Overhaul.espERSO 21.01 PM Dungeons.espERSO 21.02 PM Blackreach.espERSO 21.03 PM Dwemer.espERSO 22 - Better Necromancy Spells.espERSO 23 - Lockpicking Perks Changes.espERSO 24 - Pickpocket Perks Changes.espERSO 25 - Enchanting Perks Changes.espERSO 26 - Realistic Fall Damages.espERSO 27 - Better Archery Stuff DawnDborn.espFCKagrenacsInstantFortress.espQuest_NoMercy.espquest into the depths.espRiversideLodge.espThe Asteria - Dwemer Airship.espThe Fifth Gate.espWhiterunFortified.espWhiterunREVISION.espRRBetterWhiterunInt.espMasters of Death.espGuard Dialogue Overhaul.espHeadtracking.espSkyNotebook.espSMEssentialPlayer.espExpandedWinterholdRuins.espdD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Medium.espImp's More Complex Needs.espBetter Vampires.espApocalypse - The Spell Package.espBalanced_Magic.espDragonbornAscendant.espDragonbornAscendantDragonbornDLCAddon.espBetterMagic_FULL.espBFSEffects.espdovahkiinrelax.espFNISspells.espForgottenMagic.espDeadlyCombat.espDeadlyCombat_hardcoeDamage.espThe Dance of Death - Ultimate Edition.espCrimson Tide - Blood.espSit Anywhere.espESPv1_1.esp3DNPC.espLively Followers.espUFO - Ultimate Follower Overhaul.espBrelynaMaryon.espImmersive Followers.espLighting.espmore_Travelers-light.espSpousetocustomhome.espAlternate Start - Live Another Life.espBasvanbeu MuscleTextureChanger with Navetsea set.espVampire Skin Color Fix.esp72HoursRespawn.espWATER.espWATER Plants.espWaves.espRaceMenu.espRaceMenuPlugin.espBashed Patch, 0.espAelaTheHuntressMakeover.espAstrid.espBuryTheDead.espMasterPsiblade.espNausicaa's Tweaker.espGoonHillShack.esp
note: I do not encounter animation problems elsewhere in the game