You do realize that you don't even own the games you
paid for, right? Even if you bought them from a retail store?
Until a ruling is made that says otherwise, I do own it. I pick it up off the shelf, I give money to the cashier, I get a receipt, and walk out of the store -- the deal is done, I then own it just like a book or a loaf or bread. Just because someone says I don't,
after the sale is made, doesn't mean I actually don't.
I'm not trying to defend online activation here - I dislike it. I wish it would go away. That being said, I love Steam as a digital distribution system. I really don't understand all the people who are getting in a huff over Steam being (possibly) bundled with Skyrim - you are seriously going to preclude yourselves from buying a game simply because it comes bundled with a 3rd party system that can (easily!) be basically turned off and ignored?
If it can be completely turned off and ignored, perhaps. But I bet if it requires Steam, it will require it to handle updates/patches, will require periodic server check-ins, can disable my game remotely (heaven help me if I ever lose the account I would need to get), and will be required to be running during play. Considering I don't play on Windows (I use Linux with Wine), it'll have enough trouble running as it is, so
any extraneous software is, at the very least, one more potential point of failure.