This is a "Community" patch, which means that it is a patch that services the community but is also guided by community -input-, including input around the ways in which the patch is produced. You may not like or agree with the norms and rules of the community but simply saying "screw them, people should be allowed to be a-holes if they want to" is, INHO, not an appropriate response. So for example, when you say
Getting upset because people are rude on the internet... well, you're going to spend a lot of your time upset, right? There are always gonna be jerks.
I take great offense at the idea that we should actually accept and breed that kind of apathy. Not that I am trying speak for Zenball, but this is not a position that I think Zenball would agree with. None of the modders whose work were included in the patch have stated they were upset. What your post implies is that there is some rampant desire on behalf of some jerk modders out there who want to insulate their work, which somehow spilled over to the impedient of the community bug fixes patch, which is just not true and is not how this patch came under scrutiny by Nexus staff. as explained by DarkOne in his reply in this thread.
What you are suggesting is that there will always be random users who will do what they want, and we should just accept it since we can never really stop it. Well, we do accept it, we just don't have to perpetuate it, because in that case, there is no 'community', and people will just do whatever they want, step on each other all they like. Why even bother doing a community compilation of fixes? You can all be (cyber-)libertarian individuals with no accountability to anyone but oneself and go make your own fixes. Is this the message that should dominate the atmosphere of our engagements with each other?
I agree that it may be excessive to hunt for permission even when the fix is just GECK edits, but that should not mean no permission is needed for -anything-. Very quickly, more involved fixes, like the ones Sesom is doing, will not be made available to the 'community' (since there would be no real 'community' to share it with), and just shared privately or included only as part of the modder's own work. Is this what we want?
I believe the Nexus has gone way overboard with this permissions thing and I suspect that when Bethesda's lawyers notice, the Nexus staff are going to get into hot water over it.
That's just silly.
Now, can we move on and starting talking about the patch, rather than Nexus policies?