Ok, after weeks of learning I think I have this quest thing all worked out. At the end of one of the quests a male character can free and marry a female slave from the household that he helps. I have the follow and stay packages now worked out. The NPC and character have a house with a key and ownership. The NPC even gets changed into a tasteful though modest dress to get married in. All is well in the new household however I want the NPC to be a bit more independent, but still be a companion.

I tried doing a script to get the companion to sit and eat, go to sleep etc on command (I would prefer a random response for this independent gal, but cant work that one out either.)

Would someone possible help by doing a few basic lines of script:

Sit within about 512 of current location and eat something.
Go to bed and get some sleep.
Sit somewhere
Get changed out of that very pleasant wedding dress and wear something more practical.
Get changed out of that something practical and get your adventuring gear on, we're going out.

HELP!!!