OK, so I just downloaded the G.E.C.K and want to make a script where when you activate the creature, it shows the command menu, like Raul and EDE.
Looking at the scripts they have just completely confuses me, so I came here for help. Any advice?

Thanks
Oblivious12123

anybody?

It's Menumode 1075

so the code is Begin Menumode 1075

Think the actor needs to be set to a playerteammate to get the control wheel.
Ref.setplayerteammate 1

OK thanks but I also want my creature to grow after it's fed a certain food enough times.
Any ideas on that?

By this I mean like after it has eaten, say, 3 dog meats, The smaller reference is disabled and the larger enabled and teleported to the player.

You could take a look at my Dogmeat Leather Armor mod... it has dog-swapping.

You might also consider using ref.setscale combined with some abilities added to the creature to simulate growth. abilities for like +endurance etc. Setscale will enlarge it, assuming you want to use the same model.