I had two occurances where Vilja's disposition to me dropped from 100 to 35.
The first was we were on our way to a cave. Stopped and spoke to her about healing me, chose option do not heal outside combat. Heard a sound like someone "passing gas
" and she got mad. Took a boat load of strawberries and sweetroals to get that problem fixed.
Next time we were exiting a fort after having cleared it. I fixed her armor, then I spoke to her to talk about things, and she got mad again. Took anopther boat load of strawberries and sweetrolls.
Now, do sweetrolls and strawberries have the same efffect to raise her disposition? I ask because strawberries are hard to come by in my game. I have to travel to every inn in Cyrodiil every week to stock up! It's as bad as when my wife was pregnant and had 'cravings'
Now I know we like the unpredictability but at some point I am going to throw my hands up and tell her to "do whatever" and come see me when she "gets her hormones under control".
Now, having vented my frustration, I am asking for some cheats to keep her happy and what not to do "to upset her". Unless you really have no control and knowledge about this because of the game engine , I hope you can give this guy a break, huh?
I know its just a game but you get caught up in her AI and get used to her gabbing that you can't help but try to keep things smooth (I have a bunch of other things to worry about, like dungeon diving to earn a living!).