Alright, so I've browsed the forums for a while and found that other people have had this bug. However, I can in NO WAY fix this no matter how many way I've tried. Maybe someone has a solution.

After I turned in Blood's Honor, I did not receive Purity in Revenge. Now I've tried to console my way through to Glory in the Dead, but I still have problems. I finish the quest but no one goes back to Jorrvaskr from the tomb, and Jorrvaskr and the Hold are still in shambles, with corpses outside (complete with spectators) and a whole boat load of spectators up at the Skyforge (none of which will talk to me).

Can SOMEONE please help me fix this? I'm pulling at straws and running into a bug this bad made me lose a lot of desire to play.

Also, before anyone suggests it, I DO NOT have a save where I can go and turn in the helm, then go turn in Blood's Honor. I quick save too much.