how do i reveal the map so i can clsoe all the oblivion gates when they appear?

I guess you're asking how to have all of the map icons appear at once without having to discover them?

"tmm 1"

thanx much

Doesn't the random gates only open when you get close to them?
If that's the case then "tmm 1" shouldn't work since there are no map markers for gates that haven't opened yet.

The gates are enable by the quest stage, and TMM 1 will only work if that quest stage has become active (gates only I believe).