Pretty much im wondering if theres a console command you can use to put a map marker on the map?

qwert

You've had a lot of questions in this vein recently. I assume you are familiar with http://en.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Console, pretty much everything relating to the in-game console is listed there, you just have to look.

As for your question: No.

There is one to show all the map markers if you mean an existing one and not a player placed marker.

Edit:

TMM

Toggle Map Markers

should be 1 to show all markers, or 0 to hide all markers. Hiding markers hides ALL markers - including the city markers that are automatically visible at the beginning of the game. When adding markers, the 2nd parameter determines if the ones you add are set as discovered (1, default) or not (0), and the 3rd is all (1) or all but hidden (0,default) (e.g., to add all undiscovered markers without fast travel, enter tmm 1,0,0).