I like that if you let your son or daughter play an M game (even labeled M because of a small factor), people instantly label you a bad parent.
[censored], I've been playing M games all my life, and in my days where I still wore diapers and my dopey parents acted less mature than me. I turne out pretty good.
Rohough thinks otherwise however.
An 8 year old playing an M game? Yeah, that's irresponsible parenting. Sorry.
You might have turned out well, but not everyone is made of the same stuff, and you can't really tell when a kid is in elementary school.
I'm not a believer in the idea that games/movies/music can turn a kid into a monster. That's ludicrous blame casting, usually driven by lazy parents who want to shift blame from themselves. It can push a borderline kid over the edge, but media doesn't create criminals and degenerates. While some otherwise good parents sometimes buy their kids violent games because they don't know better, many parents buy their kids M games because they are lazy, just don't care or want to be their kid's friend instead of their parent. The former isn't really a problem, but the latter is.
You have to draw the line somewhere, though. Under the age of 10, the way kids think isn't conducive to rationalizing extreme violence as being "just a game". Buying games like FO3 and FO:NV for an elementary school kid is highly inappropriate.