Feel right?!?!? Okay imagine this your in the pub from that one screen shot...you walk over to the bar made/wench...you ask for a drink and she gets a little of an attitude for what ever reason and tells you to take a seat some where and she'll get to you when she has a chance... your conversation wheel pops up
A ) Nicely say no problem and take a seat.
B ) Walk up to the Bartender/Owner and talk some smack and get her in trouble
C ) Slap her in the face and yell at her to get the drink now
D ) Ask her whats wrong and if there's anything you can do to help
You get to choose to be a A) non confrontationist, B) a back stabbing punk C) an A-hole (MY OPTION LOL) and D) a nice guy
and say answers C and D are your PARAGON/RENEGADE those options can possibly give you a quest or side quest or what have you...but any way Bethesda does it as long as its completely different from Oblivion's and at least some what like ME's or Fallouts 3/ New Vegas I'm sure it'll be good....