Dating a younger girl : Othor Games

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 10:54 am

AND THE MOMENT OF TRUTH, DADADADA . . . everything worked out, aside from a couple of sore bullet wounds. As far as I could tell, everything turned out fine. I am sure that me being a bit older than her was a bit off putting, but like I said, I was honest, up-front, and I think he knows I am not here to take advantage. We had a solid hour long chat about certain guidelines I must abide by, curfew, conduct when in and out of the house, what you would expect. In his words "She could do worse. You seem relatively normal". I think I found a new best friend. No one has ever said such kind things about me. But in all seriousness, I think everything is set. Didn't get a chance to talk to the mother, though I am sure she is going to be filled in in my absence. As for now, take things slow and getting to really know eachother. I've known this girl for a while, been to a few of the same parties and such, but nothing too deep. Probably going to try and set up something for tomorrow, just don't know what that is. So, what you guys think?

Good work.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 11:58 am

Let New Order teach you about the http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WujDxr1zcZI.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 7:40 am

Well, I was in the situation as the OP... kinda. I was 17 and was interested in a 15 year old girl (reflecting on this is quite strange for some reason). I started technically dating her, but her parents, namely her mom, were not a fan of this action. So we were technically dating and by the time I turned 18 she was still 15. Her parents had this thing that as long as she was 16 she could start dating so that was when we told her parents we were. However, we never did anything that would be considered illegal. I'm still dating this girl actually which is awesome, and her parents, namely her mom, has grown to love me which is cool. I'm 22, shes 19 (until may). When I was 19 it was weird, her being 16 and I was in college but I got over it and we moved on. The only thing that can get in the way is the immaturity. You may not see it now, but once you're dating the person it comes out, but does go away (at least in my case).

Anyways, its not that bad of a situation as long as the parents are okay with it and you don't do anything to break any laws.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 3:43 am

I think Schnakers nailed it, if she's not too immature about all this and her parents don't disapprove I don't see anything wrong with it.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:31 pm

There's probably a reason why he hasn't replied. Like he's dead.

:facepalm: There went the maturity of this thread now. :shakehead:

*edit* Just read your update, congradulations things working out with her Dad. Take it slow, and good for you.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 11:28 am

:facepalm: There went the maturity of this thread now. :shakehead:

*edit* Just read your update, congradulations things working out with her Dad. Take it slow, and good for you.

Mature people can joke around too.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 9:38 am

Mature people can joke around too.

But it wasn't funny but childish. Not really appropriate espically when you don't want to get a thread locked. It's one thing to talk about six on the BSF but to say someone is getting it just because he talked to the dad, meh, I guess I am too old now.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:45 pm

Mature people can joke around too.

I agree. Completely harmless joke.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 6:32 am

But it wasn't funny but childish. Not really appropriate espically when you don't want to get a thread locked. It's one thing to talk about six on the BSF but to say someone is getting it just because he talked to the dad, meh, I guess I am too old now.

Hell yes it was funny. Overreacting much?

Glad to hear everything worked out for once though, that doesn't happen often on BSF ^_^

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 8:22 am

AND THE MOMENT OF TRUTH, DADADADA . . . everything worked out, aside from a couple of sore bullet wounds. As far as I could tell, everything turned out fine. I am sure that me being a bit older than her was a bit off putting, but like I said, I was honest, up-front, and I think he knows I am not here to take advantage. We had a solid hour long chat about certain guidelines I must abide by, curfew, conduct when in and out of the house, what you would expect. In his words "She could do worse. You seem relatively normal". I think I found a new best friend. No one has ever said such kind things about me. But in all seriousness, I think everything is set. Didn't get a chance to talk to the mother, though I am sure she is going to be filled in in my absence. As for now, take things slow and getting to really know eachother. I've known this girl for a while, been to a few of the same parties and such, but nothing too deep. Probably going to try and set up something for tomorrow, just don't know what that is. So, what you guys think?

That sounds nice. Congratulations. Now treat everybody with respect, and it will go fine. ^_^

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:41 am

When it's a forum with 13+ year old members, and quite a few people saying that the age of consent in most countries is 18, I think that is a little bit unipropriate.

Alas, I am officially an old geezer now. :celebrate: