Think you misunderstand a good bit about Daedra and Aedra. I recommend you go read the boock "Aedra and Daedra" at TIL.
Also, Nirn, that is, the planet, could be considered the realm of STATIC change really. Not too sure Tamriel could have a "lord" at any point. Might also wanna read "The Monomyth." Good stuff in that one relevant to your question. I'm also pretty sure the FAQs in this forum could help tons, too.