And this decision is a pretty hard one to make, and I don't have much time(3-4 weeks max).

So supposedly I'm to move to Finland..to live with my girlfriend. I can't have it the other way around due to issues on her end. I've read a lot of discouraging stuff about this place(never finding a job as a foreigner, etc), and also weighed what I would lose when I make the move(my job, health insurance, etc). There are..other factors though that are making this decision difficult.

I guess it boils down to rather this is worth it.. but I don't want to tell her that. I turned her entire life around in a good way when we met, and I'm sure it would just kill her if I back out now. Tough situation..