So what do you think is a good house to start with?
In my opinion, and for the following reasons...
Honeyside in RiftenReasoning:
1. It does not force the MQ on characters. Breezehome
requires you begin the MQ.
2. It does not force any Faction questline on characters. Hjerim
requires you to choose sides in the Civil War.
3. It does not require a minimum Level. Proudspire Manor
requires your character to be a minimum of Lvl20.
4. It does not require a minimum Level. Vlindrel Hall
requires your character to be a minimum of Lvl20 to receive the required quest.
This leaves Honeyside.
It can be purchased at any level, needs only minimal favor questing, affordable, and does not require your character to join any faction.
Nor does if force you to begin any questline you never intend to complete.
A simple choice, really.
One person's opinion. Your mileage may vary. :read: