To the first paragraph: While you have all the right to like F4's story and character more than F3's, you can't disagree with the fact that the freedom of choice is only marginally there in F4. I mean, let's just look at the choices & consequences of the first quest in NV:
- Quest starts with Joe Cobb (a bandit) intimidating a townsfolk for handing them over a person which they hide and that the bandits will attack the place- Help the townsfolk:- - Optional: Kill Joe Cobb the very first moment you see him arguing, so the Bandits will have one member less when attacking- - Optional: Recruit several people living in the town to help you out with their presence and supplies when the bandits attack- - - For convinving them you'll need various skills like Barter, Medicine or Speech i.e.- - Prepare for the attack and then defend the city- - Every of your allies who dies will stay dead- - Don't let the bandits win, or the quest will fail- Finally you've done it and became friends with the townsfolk and claim your reward, unfortunetly the powder ganger bandits will now shoot you on sightHelp the bandits (power gangers):- First, kill the person hiding in the town for the bandits- Then you need to get some supplies for the bandits from the townsfolk- - Optional: Convince the shopkeeper to supply the bandits with leather armor using the Barter skill- - Optional: Obtain medical supplies from the doctor:- - - Lie to him, buy the supplies, steal them or simply kill the doctor and take everything you want- Proceed to occupy the town with the powder gangers and kill all residents- Don't let Joe die, since he's the one who promised you a reward- Finally the town will be taken over by the bandits and you claim your reward. The townsfolk stays dead and you're free to join the powder gangers by traveling to their main base
Even the first quest of F3 had various different approaches. I'm talking about getting information from Moriarty and that you could pay him caps, work for him or steal the info from his terminal. And if you've nuked Megaton, then the main quest would simply update to "Continue to look for your father".
Now look at the possible choices in F4's quest. Right, none.
And to the 2nd paragraph: I don't agree with this. Especially hype tends to make people turn a blind eye to all the weak sides of a game and take it as it is. Just look at how most professional F4 reviews aren't even mentioning all the bugs, horrible PC port, atrocious AI and AI pathfinding, etc. etc. Also a lot of people who've never played any Fallout game bought F4 because of the hype making them interested. And I doubt that they had any expectations.