I hear what you're saying. But this is a game, not real life. I've been in plenty of fights myself, but I think it's better in action movies and games, when you see the kill move or whatever, rather than seeing it first person. I loved the first Deus Ex myself, but they're not speaking to a large group of people anymore, that are focused on what Deus Ex 1 was. They're talking to a whole new generation of players, and most of them have been corrupted by CoD and other games like it where it's just not real enough, etc. So we'll just have to do with what it is, or not play it at all?
i just hope it isnt cheesed up. also if you played alien vs predator, the new one. one of the few redeeming qualities of that game was indeed the first person "fatalities" which are far better albeit more gross than the ones i saw on deus ex demo video. you literally ripped peoples spines out in one of them and it looked and felt like you "the predator" were doing it as opposed to some character that you are controlling. also what happens when youve seen the same kill move for the upteenth time. i certainly hope they are toggleable. anything that rips me out of first person view ruins my immersion. i want to be adam or whatever his name is. just like i wanted to be jc denton. the fewer times im reminded that im not him but just controlling some character the better to me.
i woudlnt call most modern games realistic by any stretch of the imagination. regen health, instant time travel (certain racing games, prince of persia) third person views which let you cheat by seeing more than you normally would. its amazing when you get someone who is a hotshot to play one fo the older games like doom or duke nukem or even serious sam on hard modes. they practically get molested. i recently played the new updated version of serious sam HD and i used to be kick ass at that game. i had to work to get my skills back because of all the lame easy shooters ive played lately. even the stalker games on hardest settings are to difficult for most people who are used to todays easy shooters.
the only game that i found difficult to play today is probably left 4 dead on realistic mode. now that is a hard game and probably why i liked it so much.