I remember when I was 13, I asked a girl out and she straight up said, "I'd never go out with you." That's a quote that has stuck with me since, and I think about her saying that everyday, which leads me to ponder what it is about me that women don't like and I don't like about myself.

Sad stuff, I come up with.

Oh, and I see her everyday when I'm walking between lecture halls, so that's always a nice little punch in the face.

Damnit boy SNAP OUT OF IT! If you don't like yourself and are always down and pouting about how life svcks you aren't going to attract anybody. CONFIDENCE. If you have confidence you can instantly attract a woman just by introducing yourself! Trust me on this confidence Confidence CONFIDENCE. Ask any woman or read any article online and they well all say you got to have confidence.

that svcks.... That hasn't happened to me. I've always had girls just tell me flat out no. or yes.. mostly no. :biggrin: but ever since I started dating my current girlfriend four years ago, I haven't really been browsing the market.

Cyber stalking. I remember when you actually had to walk outside and go to the girls house. You actually got exercise!

Man, those were the days.

Well, I could go hit on her and see if she's taking up the offer. :hubbahubba:
Seriously though, if that's an excuse than it probably would only work if you really don't see someone very often. Then again, "not interested" would have been sufficient. ^_^

Those were the days brony, those were the days.

It's much harder to give a simple "no" than some roundabout excuse! A simple "yes" is easy, but saying "no" makes you feel like you're going to hurt the other person's feelings, but on the flip side you don't want to go out with them just so you don't have to say "no"... Though I've actually done that as well. :whistling: :pinch: I have difficulties saying no.

Relating to the OP's case, I have a friend who told someone she was lisbian to get them to stop bothering her. This was a case where the guy was repeatedly pestering her to go out with him, and she wanted to get him to leave her alone long-term, so... It worked! In your case she could actually just be a lisbian. You never know. :shrug:

I asked a girl out once that told me "I'm just not ready for a relationship" which I knew immediately that mean't no. Silly women not being direct about things, if women weren't so hot it would be a lot easier if everybody were just gay, but I guess that reinforces the quote "Women, can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em."

In a case such as this I might have said it depends on the look she gave when she sized you up as you approached, but the thing with women is, they size you up way before you actually approach, so you can't tell what they're actually thinking. If they do look like they're assessing you when you ask, it's just so they don't seem like creeps that have already considered it.

But to answer your question, she's most likely not lying. If it's your first time asking her, it's not like she's already irritated, and she could have easily said "I'll think about it." or "I'll get back to you on that." or "Gee, I don't know, I have a tight schedule." or avoid the question completely or something! When someone proclaims a sixual orientation, they kinda have to stick to it in front of other people. You say you go there everyday, meaning she sees you everyday meaning she's risking having a boyfriend walk in and kiss her or something if she was lying.

Long story short, improbable. Don't worry, plenty more fish in the sea. Besides, looks aren't everything, right? Right?! Okay, I just lost the crowd with that one. . . :whistling:

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Yes. Considering she was a member of my high school and was looking forward to FO3 right along with me, it made me way more than a little depressed.

EDIT: I found out from one of her male friends, though, so I at least spared myself the embarrassment.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Good timing!

Guys and lisbians have more in common than they think!

In Amsterdam there's a flat 60/40 chance of a girl saying she's into chicks (this percentage rises with the inerrant beauty of the woman)

I've countered before with answers as "Cool, but I was asking about drinks, not which gender you bang.., btw I'm a lisbian in a male body, nice to meet you"

Although I gotta admit, being direct gets easier with age

Beauty is biologically based on adaptations affecting our subconcious decisions in relation to what's best for genetic matches and fertility. The 1.618 ratio (a.k.a. the "perfect ratio") is a large part of that.

Actually that saying is a nice way of saying your mate is [censored] ugly

+1

:thumbsup:

yeah, well your face is a golden ratio

Thank you? :huh:

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That has happened to me, and now she's one of my best friends. I doubt she said that just to get rid of you... but I could be wrong.

The thing is, she's the only person I've ever legitimately liked, so that's why it's stuck to me like this.

Yeah rejection svcks and it can make you feel that way but you shouldn't let it bother you too much. Just because 1 girl rejected you doesn't mean they're all going to.

That's a weird way of saying she's not interested. I have gotten the "I have a boyfriend excuse" a couple of times myself.

How would you say "ha! You don't like me, you must be straight!" without sounding narcissistic?

Nobody can resist me! http://ompldr.org/vOGxlbA/Evil%20Fluttershy.jpg
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Nah, I'd just want to see what kind of excuse the lady might come up with, in case she really was just looking for one. Win-win situation. ^_^