Almost every week I go to this diner to have breakfast with a friend and there's this waitress that I think is one of the most amazing girl I have ever seen... I always wanted to ask her out !

Today I had the balls to go see her and I told her that every time I come here I want to come introduce myself because your so beautiful, then I ask her out for a drink... but what does she say ?! Im a lisbian

I was speechless for a couple of seconds, then she smiled and said thanks for the compliment !

But im wondering, do girls do that to get rid of guys ?! Did it ever happen to you ?

No, that has never happened to me.

Cool that you tried though.

It's hard to approach the opposite gender.
Believe me.
I truly don't have any advice to aid you.
Women are scary SCARY things to make contact with.
Especially one(s) you find attractive and are afraid will reject you.

When I act shy around them, nothing.
But... When I act my normal, weird self, BAM!
I have far better luck and they seem to adore, or at least like, me.

Back in high school, I had a crush on this girl. Thing is, I found out indirectly that she was homosixual. I asked her out anyway and didn't get a straight answer. Oh well.

And I just realized I made a pretty clever pun without noticing it. :lmao:

Oh I find this funny , it might be that she maybe might be a "lisbian" ! Billions of other girls out there.

A lot of women nowadays are actually bisixual, come to find out.
Not to sure why the sudden change.

I prefer being with women than men. Less point scoring BS, easier on the eyes. Course most of the ones I know are already taken, not interested or insane, but you can't have everything.


I like to think that if I was attractive enough to have women fawning over me, I wouldn't fob the undesirable ones off with "sorry, I'm gay". I'd say, "sorry, no, you're an ugly [censored]".

I take it... You're a girl...?

At least the insane ones provide interesting entertainment.

:P No offense part of the LGBT some girls do it for the attention. Or it is just people finding themselves. Trust me I'm a tranny.

Or maybe... It's because the female gender just looks more physically appealing than male?
To both the male, and female, genders.
I probably think that way simply because I'm a straight male.

Well I'm not stating that there isn't tons of bisixual females.
The thing is some men are kinda interested into bisixual women because they might think "Wooo they like what I like but like what I offer OH YEAA!":P
Or they just want attention .
And if they like both sixs.

Yeah I just wish they were honest.

Asked a girl out on friday, and she said she was saving money for her birthday, I'm gonig to try a little later and see if I get another excuse, "no", or dare I say "yes"?

All you can do really. Don't think about it to much, either way shes not going out with you, move on to the next one.

I'm sure plenty of people say similar to try and let someone down nicely; it gives them a way to say "no" without indirectly adding "because ___ is wrong with you". Whether it's an excuse or the truth isn't really something you'd know, but it doesn't matter anyway. No is no.

Probably

I know personally, I find other guys just as attractive as girls, and that's probably because I'm not a straight male. :3

To OP; I've never had that problem, though. You can learn a lot about a person just by watching how they carry themselves, and I'm not saying I'm an expert, because I'm not one by any means, but I've gotten pretty good at judging which way people go.

Women are hawt stuffz.
Want moar!

Never experienced this but props for asking anyway.

On the flip side, I've had a girl ask me out (romantically) and I never picked up on it, asking her if it was cool if I brought my posse (I don't have a posse) with me. Didn't realise until she hung up - we never really spoke again. God, that was more embarrassing than suddenly losing your boner.

Nope can't say that's ever happend to me. I'm guessing she either found a way to turn guys away or she might be gay.

Facebook stalk her and see where her sixual orientation truly lies.

Well at least you had the guts to ask her, that shows a sign of confidence and woman like men with confidence. Have I ever had that exact excuse given to me as a rejection no, but you are going to get rejected at times. Woman are funny, usually when they reject people they try to say it nicely or find a stupid excuse because they don't want to hurt feelings, unless they're a total [censored]. I've dated plenty of woman and also been rejected by plenty of woman its just part of the game so to speak.

A bit off topic but this reminded me of this one girl who liked me back in high school. I really didn't date her but we've hooked up and the such and she was bi-sixual. I also had an ex-girlfriend go lisbian after we broke up. The girl I hooked up with and my ex that went lisbian both started started dating...

When I was 14 this was like my 2nd girlfriend and I really didn't know how to treat woman and was kind of new the whole thing. We broke up probably because I didn't give her attention. Her break-up excuse was she wanted to focus on homework. Not the worst rejection excuse I've heard, at least you didn't have a girlfriend who broke up with you so she could do her home work

No, I'm a guy. It's hard to explain the avatar, you had to be there.

I don't understand why people have to do this. A simple "yes" or "no" will suffice. I don't care about your crappy reasons. Just tell me and get it over with.

The only think I noticed about her is how shy she seems to be when shes working (yes I watch her often when I eat)... shes very OMG VERY feminine, yet she doesn't carry herself with that confidence !!!

Im thinking of asking another of the waitresses if its true next week, but im not sure I want to get into stalking... but curiosity is curiosity

:rofl:

nope

I was asked by a lisbian hippie if I found her attractive.... I said no.