My goal here is to somehow mod the main quest to make it seem like someone else did it, though not in so many words of course. Looking through the scripts i think i can disable many of the rewards you get for setting the stages ahead (fame, faction adjustments etc), but i can't seem to find out how to disable the "namecalling" that comes with it.
Eventually i'd like to find (or make if it really doesn't exist) a mod that bypasses the MQ entirely, making you a bystander in it all rather than being the chosen one (giving you the option to go into some oblivion gates if you want to, but not forcing you to like the MQ does), but my understanding of the CS is rather weak at the moment. The MOE quest delayer seems promising, however it's a very different approach to the same problem with equally different results an intentions.