There is the BOSS program. It looks at a huge list of mods for New Vegas, Oblivion, Fallout 3, Nehrim and Skyrim, and correctly places them in load order, checks for compatibility, ect.
I think that Jblack was looking for a graphics enhancing guide for fallout new vegas similar to the one that already exist for Skyrim. Well, mate, I reccomend you to watch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn6bLQoVwFY&feature=relmfu made by Gopher!