Wait so six is really bad yet the gore that fallout had = fine 0.o also you realise in fallout I can actually see thier eyes popping out, its not just random blood splatters. Also fallout NV has hokers, even a robot named "Fisto" and the six in DAO is nothing. Hell you wear underwear.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDPBHNPDyj0
Zevran and Leliana are both bi too.
Also why not just not let him play it, it isnt exactly a game for kids, oh and there is nudity.
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRLqDlFfpBnc1x0qR2CDIxh5DviWQSoKWwc8qE75t0xTL_qCsI&t=1&usg=__tSEOOKC_sMxQ0eBzgWwa2I7c8Ew=
If you still want this get awakening, no six, still got a broodmother though.
I'm going to have to agree with everything I just quoted.
No, you can't 'toggle' the six scenes off, but you can avoid them by not pursuing any kind of romance, though that can be a little tricky. But like was already said, they're nothing outrageous, but they were widely talked about, to be honest, I'm really surprised you didn't hear about this already. That said, the game *is* serious and I just don't see how a 9-year-old would understand all that is going on in the plot. There are tons of dialogue and choices to make.
I am also a little amazed that you are so willing to miss out on good games because of your son. Like said, just don't let him play it. Or don't let him see you play it, whichever you prefer. You're denying yourself a lot of fun, instead of just playing them for yourself and letting him play them when he's older.